Queen says you also might see some blood depending on how vigorous the sex was, or if the person is on hormone replacement therapy which can change the delicacy of the tissue for some people , but it should stop. Basically, wearing the mitt is an added safety measure and reduces the risk of accidentally scratching your partner internally and also makes lubricant last longer. Using lots of lube, going slowly during sex, and drinking lots of water after always helps to alleviate the discomfort, but it can still happen. Wilde recommends starting however you normally would sexually, and then move up one finger at the time until she can comfortably accommodate four of your fingers. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below. You can also give your partner a vibrator to use on themselves to distract them from what could be a painful removal scenario, transforming it into what fisting should be overall, which is super fun and awesome.
Selena. Age: 30.
She also recommends as much communication as possible so you can know when your receiving partner is ready for more and when they want you to stop moving.
Katelyn. Age: 22.
she loves to get fisted
Basically, wearing the mitt is an added safety measure and reduces the risk of accidentally scratching your partner internally and also makes lubricant last longer. Even if you wash your hands thoroughly, you want to make sure there are no abrasions from the nails or hangnails, explains Queen. Advertisement - Continue Reading Below. She recommends just remaining still and then massaging the outside of her vagina with your other hand to relax the muscles while you slowly and carefully work the other hand out.